I think that the real key to it is that I quit giving a rats ass about what everyone else thought and freed my mind from the hang ups associated with caring about other people's opinions. It feels good!,
On a side note My hair is growing like crazy. It is past the middle of my back and has grown about 4 inches in the past 2 months, YAY! And I recently died it dark again, almost black. That part is taking some getting used to after being a red head for more years than I can remember. Things they are a changin! Cue the David Bowie music...ch ch changes!